Masterpiece Mindset: Lean into Your Intrinsic Value

Hey Pookie! We’ve reached the halfway point in this series, and I know you’re ready for this 3-pointer. I don’t really know basketball, so I hope that pun sticks. I’m a writer, not an athlete 🤷🏽‍♀️

Anyway, no matter who you are, sooner or later we all fall victim to the comparison trap — it’s sneaky and way too common, especially when you’re building something creative and personal like your own business. But here’s the truth: you are the only you that exists, and that’s valuable.

3. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

Social media is often the main trigger. Mute or unfollow anyone who makes you spiral, even if they’re “inspirational.” Instead, follow people who make you feel motivated, not less than.

Still, don’t get caught up in the optics. It’s easy to scroll through social media and feel like everyone else has it figured out. But you’re only seeing the highlight reel. Focus on your own journey—your path to success is unique.

Create More Than You Consume

If you’re in a scroll spiral, step away and make something — even a doodle or a voice memo of your ideas. Action reconnects you to your own voice.

Turn Comparison into Curiosity

When you catch yourself comparing, try asking:

• What is this bringing up for me?

• Is this showing me something I want too — and if so, how can I go after it in my own way?

Comparison can be a clue, not a judgment.

Ground in Your Why

Not only are you the only person who can do what it is that makes you special, but you are also the only one who knows why it’s special. Remind yourself: Why did I start this journey? What lights me up about it? Anchor in your purpose — that’s yours, no one else’s.

Don’t Be So Hard on Yourself

Everyone’s pace, resources, and path are different. You’re not behind — you’re just on your timeline. Don’t beat yourself up comparing someone else’s Chapter 10 with your Chapter 2. Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you. Yes, go back and read that again.

We know the original saying, “Treat others the way you want to be treated.” But you need to be careful about how you treat yourself, too. If your inner voice is being mean, ask: Would I say this to someone I care about? Probably not. So rewrite it with kindness.

Or else…

🙂

xo